How do we learn the dialogue art ? (1
الاثنين، 9 نوفمبر 2009
, Posted by موت احبك at 9:23 ص
Some of you enables that needs it
How do you gain your discussion ?
Did he precede and she was defeated in your discussion and felt that the right is with you but you don't know how do you connect your viewpoint ?
Or did he precede and your discussion turned to a hot sentimental battle that might have developed to a battle by the words ?
Did I feel one day that the party other in the discussion with you he educated a silent because it, only, wants you to become silent and he is not because it is convinced of your speech ?
A lot from us he doesn't find who Bithqan meets for the dialogue the persons are levels even in this practical life in the university or a field or in the work all of us may strive the difficulty after launching itself conversational Withqanh ..
, if he preceded and for you a thing happened from what preceded know that you are not discussing and good and doesn't excel in some discussion origins .. because the discussion a high and sensitive art all and for it special origin don't excel in it since we shouldn't increase it except if we felt that we like to clarify an important viewpoint around an useful subject, because the discussion, in this case, increases the human culture and its informing however if he was around a trivial subject or not important and felt that the discussion about it won't add a new the worthier of its leaving of saying the messenger peace be upon him ( I am the leader of the house of the paradise Brbd of who left the doubt and if he was right ) and these six points will help you God willing that he forms a fair good and strong debater at the same time so that he can the other party persuasion by your viewpoint without causing for it a wound or an embarrassment .
and she is for the application in everyday life :
1-Leave it he speaks and presents its issue :
Your speaker doesn't boycott that said goodbye to him that presents his issue fully until he doesn't feel that you didn't understand him because if she boycotted him during his speech, you encourage him psychologically on the non- listening to you because the one that maintains has a speech in his chest that will concentrate his thinking of the way of the speaking and he can't listen to you well and no understanding is what he says and you want him to hear and he understands until he is convinced also his question is about its mention things or your request from him the return of some of what he said for him a great importance because the other party feels that you listen to him and care for his speech and his viewpoint and this reduces the hostile incentive at him and makes him feel that you are fair .
2-He stopped few before she answers :
When he directs to you a question he aspired to it and he stopped for a while before the response because that explains that you think and care by what he said and I am not ready for the attack .
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1-Leave it he speaks and presents its issue :
Your speaker doesn't boycott that said goodbye to him that presents his issue fully until he doesn't feel that you didn't understand him because if she boycotted him during his speech, you encourage him psychologically on the non- listening to you because the one that maintains has a speech in his chest that will concentrate his thinking of the way of the speaking and he can't listen to you well and no understanding is what he says and you want him to hear and he understands until he is convinced also his question is about its mention things or your request from him the return of some of what he said for him a great importance because the other party feels that you listen to him and care for his speech and his viewpoint and this reduces the hostile incentive at him and makes him feel that you are fair .
2-He stopped few before she answers :
When he directs to you a question he aspired to it and he stopped for a while before the response because that explains that you think and care by what he said and I am not ready for the attack .
If she enjoyed this article .. he shared in the related to us a nutrition Rss
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