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How do we learn the dialogue art ? (2

الاثنين، 9 نوفمبر 2009 , Posted by موت احبك at 9:32 ص


3-She doesn't insist on winning of a ratio 100 % :
She doesn't try to prove the validity of your attitude totally and that the other party is mistaken totally in all what says . If I wanted to persuasion, he recognized by some of the points that he reports even if she was simple and showed that you agree with it in it because it will become the more tendentious for the approval by your viewpoint and tried always that she repeats this phrase ( I understand your viewpoint ), ( I am more capable what says and I share with you your feeling ) .

4-Present your issue in a gentle and moderate way :
Sometimes at the opposition she may try the presentation of your viewpoint or the criticism of your speaker viewpoint by a thing from the exaggeration and the excitement, and this a serious mistake, the scientific witnesses proved that the truths that are presented quietly the severest effect in the persuasion of the others from what the threat and the excitement do in the speech . She can may with the excited speech, the screaming and the rushing that she triumphs in your discussion and obtains the approval of the attendants but you can't persuasion the other party of your viewpoint by this way and he will bring a silent but it is not convinced at all and he won't work with your opinion

5-She happens through another party :
If I wanted to recall an evidence on your viewpoint, they doesn't mention your special opinion but he tried to mention other persons opinion, because the other party will bother and will doubt the credibility of your speech if all was about your opinion and your personal experiences contrary to what if for it opinions, some celebrities experiences and others mentioned . And some of what came in the books and the statistics because it is stronger evidences by many .

6_Allow for it with the preservation of its self-respect :
Because the clever persons, who have the painter talent are those who knows how do they make the other party recognize their viewpoint without feeling the embarrassment or the insult, and they leave to him a nice director from his attitude, if I wanted that the other party admits for you your viewpoint leave for him a field so that he escapes through him from his attitude as if he gives him a reason for example to the non- application of his viewpoint or new information they are not knowing it or any reason throws about him the responsibility to the non- validity of his viewpoint with your clarification for him that his main principle is right ( and if any part of him

As for the complete attack on its viewpoint or the irony from it he will push him voluntarily to stick to it no more and the refusal of your speaking without a listening to it because its concession, in this case, will appear and as if it is a fear and a weakness and he a money he wants to show it whatever it takes .

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